An anxiety book for women who haven't got time for an anxiety book
Oh Sh!t, I'm panicking and I've got things to do.
I thought I knew my anxiety. Then I hit my forties and my body changed the bloody rules.
Available now on Amazon UK
Honest, funny and refreshingly unpolished help for real life at 40+.
You may recognise this
When familiar anxiety suddenly feels unfamiliar.
Racing heart. Dodgy stomach. Escape planning. Health checking. Panic in the supermarket. Anxiety at the doctor's. Cancelled plans. Work stress. Relationships. Hormones. And the occasional day when your nervous system apparently decides it has nothing better to do than ruin your afternoon.
Oh Sh!t, I'm Panicking — And I've Got Things to Do is an honest, funny and refreshingly unpolished account of what happens when anxiety you thought you understood suddenly feels unfamiliar again in your forties.
At 45, Adele Clark isn't looking back from the other side of menopause with all the answers. She's right in the middle of it — trying to work out what's anxiety, what might be hormonal, what's stress, what needs a doctor and why her body seems to have quietly rewritten the instruction manual.
This is not a medical textbook. It's real life.
Inside you'll find supermarket panic attacks, health anxiety, relationships, work, grief, guilt, changing hormones and those completely ordinary moments that become ridiculously difficult when your brain decides there's an emergency.
And because sometimes reading an entire bloody chapter is one thing too many, there are Bloody Useful Bits throughout and 21 Oh Sh!t Pages at the back for the moments when you just need help getting through this bit.
For women who:
- thought they had anxiety figured out until their forties arrived
- are wondering, “Is this anxiety? Hormones? Stress? Or am I just having a bloody day?”
- are tired of being told to “just relax”
- want honesty and humour without pretending everything can be fixed with positive thinking
- sometimes need practical help now, not another three-hour podcast
You don't have to read it perfectly. You don't even have to read it in order.
Read the story when you want company. Dip into the Bloody Useful Bits when you want something practical. Or go straight to the Oh Sh!t Pages when things go sideways.
Less spiral. More getting on with it.
Three ways to use the book
Three ways in.
Zero “just breathe.”
Read it. Use the practical bits. Jump straight to the Oh Sh!t Pages.
21 quick-reference pages for when panic is loud and the helpful advice you have read before is not currently landing.
Available now
Yes. This sounds like me.
Oh Sh!t, I'm Panicking… And I've Got Things to Do. Available in paperback and Kindle.
Paperback • Kindle
Take your pick.
Paperback for the bedside table. Kindle for the queue.